21 Questions

Although, I have been invited every week to join in a TMI Tuesday, I haven't done any recently for lack of time, but I saw this one over at Blue-Eyed Vixen and since I had some spare time tonight, I stole it from her. 

1. Do you like your feet to be touched when having sex?

I recently discovered toe licking and it is something that can get me over the edge when done at the proper moment.  You should give it a try!

2. If your love life was a movie what would the title be?
Oh God, I have a bad memory for titles, but right now it could be The Graduate, call me Mrs. Robinson Hehe!

3. Orgasm eyes open or closed?
Used to be closed, but it's amazing to keep eyes locked, very intense!

4. Have you ever been to a sex club, swinger club or sex party?
Nope.  Would like to try however.

5. How many years difference is appropriate for having sex with someone…example is it appropriate for a 36 year old to be with a 20 year old?
Still one year ago I would have been hesitant, but I've read so much since and have learned that when two people click, have a good chemistry, age doesn't really matter, it is more two souls who get together and share intense moments.  The hell with conventions!   We only live once and life is so short, right? Of course, he should be what we call an adult.  Little cougar mama grinning here, only 16 years difference?  Pfff!  That is nothing...  *ahem*

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6. Does your partner know all your favorite positions? 
Hubby did.  My recent lover introduced me to new ones, I love discoveries!

7. What would your porn star name be?
Me a porn star?  Hahaha!  I'm a horny Pixie, but I welcome suggestions.

8. Have you ever done a body shot?
When I was in my early 20s, but never since.  I would be drunk after only two tequila shots, but I'd love to try again anyway.  Sounds like fun!

9. Kissed someone of the same sex?
Oh yes!  HHhhmmm!  Wrote about it  here.

10. Have you ever screamed out the wrong name during the heat of the moment?
No, I never scream names.... um, yes I did in fact!  Only fools don't change :)

11. Are socks on during sex a turn on or off?

What's the point of wearing socks during sex?  Yuk!

12. How big is too big for penis size?

Well, um... will tell you when I find one.  I'd say length is less interesting than girth, but that's me.

13. This one is from the Hubman Do you think your grand-parents still have sex? 

Probably in spirit, or in another dimension, but then I don't know if sex is important in that other dimension.

14. Who usually initiates the foreplay in your relationship?

It depends of who I am with.

15. Do you like to be teased?
It's a great turn on, but there has to be a reward.

16. Do you like your hair pulled?

Big revelation!  I've never had my hair pulled, even when it was long.  I only read about it since I started reading erotica.  Duh!

17. How do you feel about long distance relationships and can they work?
Based on experience, they can only last a certain time, or in the perspective of being together in the end, but otherwise, no.  You could say, that is my life story... apart from my story with hubby.

18.How much money would it take to have sex with someone you were not attracted to?
I would never do it for all the money in the world.  Or I would loose all dignity.  


19. What would your SEX license plate say?
Don't know, we don't have them over here, but when I visited the US, I saw a now very classical one, but the naive young girl I was thought it was awesome - good girls to to heaven, bad girls go everywhere (that's me, I thought).

20. Does biting turn you on?
I tend to be the biter, I've never been bitten. But hey, why not?

21. Sex in a barn full of cows and horses or a outhouse at the county fair?
YES, in the hay, on the upper part where the hay was stacked, don't care about cows and horses, for that matter.  The smell of hay combined to the smell of sex!  Besides I was watching the rabbits frolicking in the prairie from the barn's upper window. A wonderful memory!  An outhouse at a fair? Definitely!

It's my birthday today

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A Sagittarius born on December 19 walks an emotional tightrope but is fearless. True, my family and friends tell me I'm crazy to drive alone in dangerous parts of African countries, or to touch tigers, or do walking safaris in the bush.


They often seem to be the strong, silent type. Also true, I'm rather shy, but seem to be strong.


They need to make a contribution to society through their work or ideals. Yes, I want to go to Africa one day and work for the "innocents" - children or endangered species, or both.


December 19 people make friends effortlessly. Not sure


They can transform a frivolous relationship into a meaningful friendship. Sometimes true.


They have something of a reputation for being great lovers. You'll have to ask my lovers, hehehe!


They enjoy playing the field before settling down and usually gravitate toward glamorous types, though they may be somewhat plain. Quite right, but with some nuance.


People born on this date could hardly be more different in their role as parents than their parents were. They're inclined to give their children far greater freedom than they were allowed, though their academic expectations are likely to be higher. Yes, definitely!


People born on this date are in tune with the rhythms of their body, so they often subscribe to homeopathic or holistic treatments. They can benefit from deep massage, reiki, or rolfing techniques, which provide psychological and emotional benefits in addition to physical therapy. Oh, yes, give me that massage please! I'm a whore for massage, but am a good at giving massage as well!


People born on this date are not particularly goal-conscious but are happiest when they have opportunities to use their professional status to affect change. They like to be noticed for their singularity of purpose. Singularity of purpose?  Yes!

TMI Tuesday

Limits

What would you never do?
Zoophilia, scatology, pedophilia, necrophilia, piercing with needles, things that hurt



What do you want to try as you like the idea of it?
MFM, DP, light bondage, spanking,  maybe fisting, role-playing.  Yet, after over 20 years of vanilla sex, I'm pretty open-minded and maybe would enjoy things that look scary to me, but as long as I haven't tried... 

Bruno Dayan

What did you try and now love?
Toe sucking, blindfolding, having sex in public places, anal sex


What did you try and didn't like?
I never disliked anything I tried, but I would not like BDSM, nor having hot wax splilled on me, not sure I would like to have my nipples clamped, however, as I said, as long as I haven't tried, I would be unable to say if I like it or not.

Mikal Binds




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TMI Tuesday

This was sent to me by my friend Hedone a while ago.  I was unable to do it then, but please check her replies and those of all who played.


Whats the funniest...


1) Place you have had sex
On a tumbler drier, I guess.  I climaxed in less than a minute, several times, it was fun!

2) Position you have done
I cannot remember the exact position, but we left footprints on the wall next to the bed and could not figure out how we managed to make them.  Impossible to redo it!

3) Request from a partner
To lick him after having smeared himself with Nutella.  By the time I had licked him and made him cum, I almost had an indigestion.  I can't stand Nutella any more.

Tommy Agriodimas (FilthyGorgeousThings)

4) Item of clothing or outfit worn during sex
A clown costume during Carnival. Have you ever seen two horny clowns having sex?  LOL!

5) Thing that happened
Under a willow tree in a park, I was on my knees doing a bj, when my boyfriend told me to freeze, there were several gay people watching us and getting off.  When we realised we were not in trouble, I went on and several men benefitted from the show.  What we had not realized is that this particular tree was a meeting place for gays.

TMI Tuesday

1. Did you have an imaginary friend when you were young? What was her/his/its name? No, but with the fertile imagination of the lonely child I was, I lived in my own universe, as an explorer who communicated with animals on another level than words, mentally. Of course, at five I had never heard of telepathy. I still believe in it.  Click

2. June is National Oral Sex month. When was the last time you enjoyed oral sex? Giving or receiving? A few days ago, giving and receiving.

3. What sexual or non-sexual skill or talent are you really good at? My husband likes everything I do to him, so I don't know if I have a specific talent. He loves my massages though, sexual and non-sexual.

4. Do you have a sexual goal, what is it? When I'll be free again, I'd love to try role-play, sensual bondage, inter-racial sex, three-somes, spanking, and having sex in dangerous places, and I'm forgetting many other things.

5. What can't you leave home without? Given the fact that I do travel a lot, I always take my camera. If you are thinking of dildoes, don't really need them.

Bonus: How long have you been blogging? 8 months

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TMI Tuesday

Another TMI Tuesday I missed:

1. Name one thing that turns you on with unprecedented success.  Whispering in my ear all the deliciously naughty things your are going to do to me, telling me how hot I look doing all these naughty things.

2. Quick! Look around you and name 3 ordinary items that could be used sexually.  In my office, nothing really. If I were at home, cucumber, carrots, dildoes, many things.


3. Do you consider sex good even if you don't orgasm?  I'm a lucky one who almost always manages to orgasm, but in the rare occasions where I don't, I enjoy foreplay and sex tremendously, and making my partner cum I find very enjoyable.


4. If you could be the opposite sex for one day, what sexual position or act would you like to experience from the other side? Anal sex, fellatio, doggy-style, all the positions I cannot enjoy as a woman visually.


5.Describe a sexual fantasy in 10 words or less. I'm tied up on a chair and he takes advantage of me.

Bonus (optional): Pretend you're a doctor and a patient has come in with an "ache". What is your course of "treatment"?  massage, massage and more ....body-body massage.

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Under Foreign Skies

Travelling, for me, can be quite a sensual experience. I am always thrilled by the first breath I inhale when I step out of the plane. Like an animal, I sniff the air and try to analyse and define what comes through my nostrils. It can be quite surprising sometimes as it is the scent of flowers or spices, rather than just the smell of dirt. When I came back to Africa last year, I recognised the very peculiar perfume of the African grass although we were miles away from the savannah, and then I heard the birds’ songs and I knew I was back on my favourite continent.

I also look at the sky. The sky is very different if you are in Stockholm or in the Masai Mara. I have never seen a clearer sky than in the Mara, it is crystal clear, pristine, as it were one of the first days of the world. When you live in a city, where the sky is blurred by pollution, by city lights at night, it does not come to your mind to watch the sky, apart from watching the starts or the moon, why would you?


If you are lucky, you hear the sounds of nature - bush or savannah, or even desert - which is in fact very quiet. Animals are quiet most of the time, apart from birds. Human beings are the loudest of all species. Annoyingly loud! In an African capital, the priest of the Orthodox Church would start to pray on the microphone from 3.30 to 5.30 a.m. every morning for two weeks. It turned out that according to their calendar, Easter started two weeks earlier than ours, something difficult to adapt to when you have to get up early and work 14 days in a row. The lion roars in the gardens of the King’s Palace next door, or the bray of rutting female donkeys at night, in the slums next door, sounded like music to our ears.


The landscapes and the colours are the most powerful first impressions. Then I look at the people, at their features¸ their clothes, the way they interact. What strikes me is that people often smile, much more than here in Europe. It seems to me that we have lost that connection, we are all so busy, serious, arrogant and grumpy. We thrive under stress, so full of our own importance, becoming upset when we are not getting what we are asking for at once. We don’t smile so much anymore. And I realise that the notion of time changes depending on where you are, North or South. Time seems to be elastic!


When you travel, ideally you open up to the world and absorb it through all your senses. If you are receptive, it is an incredible lesson of life. You have to accept less comfort, a simpler life, sometimes without electricity and/or water, different food, new spices - another incredibly sensual, almost orgasmic experience - different habits, behaviours, values, or even taboos. It always humbles me.


It makes me live several lives. One time, I am a 6 year old girl walking barefoot on the red dirt road going to school in a torn uniform, my hair pleated, sharing the classroom with children of different grades, with no lunch because the school doesn’t have enough money to feed us at noon. But I do not complain because I learn to read and I will become educated maybe until I am 12, with some luck until I graduate. My mother wakes up at 4.30 a.m. to fetch water from the river, and wood for fuel, an hour or more away from home. She has to be careful with the hyenas that come scavenging into the village at night.

Another time, I am a 23 year old policeman who bribes the owners of small shops selling cheap ethnic paraphernalia to tourists. I have to sustain the whole family since my father was put into jail for some obscure reason. I also sell fake billion dollar bills to tourist, that is how bad the inflation hit the country. I have another job at night, but I don’t want to talk about it.

I am that teenage girl, who was genitally mutilated at 13, who was forced into a marriage with a man 25 years older than her, but who run away from home, and now lives in a centre where she learns to become self-reliant and finishes school.

I am looking forward to travelling again, it is an exhilarating experience. I do feel completely elated.

What if?

In less than three weeks, I'll be travelling again, guess where?  This picture should give you a hint. 


I will get some time away from home, which is greatly needed.


Last night, I was in bed early with a runny clown's nose and pumpkin head, reading some blogs (I've become completely addicted), when hubby came and told me he had some medicine for my cold.  Delicious medicine!


What if I lick you down there while you suck me down here?  Oh, heaven!  What if I put my fingers in here, moving them in a circle, while my thumb rubs that little bud of yours?  Oh, oh, don't stop!  What if I push that little spot still circling my fingers?  Oh, oh, oh!!!  Oh my God!..........   pant! pant! pant!  How did you do this?  This was just incredible! The bed is soaked.  What if I gave you this medicine for your sore throat?  Hum!  hummmmmpf!  Hmmmm! Hmmmmpff!  Barely breathing with my stuffed-up nose...  Jaw slightly hurting, neck bent in an uncomfortable angle.  Ah!  Breathing again!  Ooops sticky stuff on my breasts, chin, nose and eye! He he he!  Wish someone would take a picture! 

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What if we put up an ad to find a man for a threesome?  HUH?!?  WHAT?!? We had discussed our fantasies at some point, along with having sex in awkward places, watching porn while having sex, etc.

Me (thinking) hm!  Someone with a nice, big cock..

Hubby: he would need to be elegant!

Me (thinking)... yes, hairless chest, butt and shoulders...

Hubby: able to sustain a conversation!

Me: Huh?  you mean you will speak politics and sports while you f**k me?

Hubby: no, before, when we meet him.  He would need to be younger.

Me (thinking)... nice chiselled torso, tight ass, cute smile...

Hubby: and I would not want a fucker!

Me: So, what do you want him for?

Hubby: no, I could not stand a vulgar idiot just wanting to f**k you for the sake of it!  I still don't even know if I could bear the sight of another man having sex with you.

Me ... well, maybe when he sees us he will run away... after seeing my wobbly stomach (after three pregnancies), my sagging breasts after their long lost battle against gravity, or my "flatbed"?

Hubby: so, when do we put up an add?

Me (suddenly waking up from my daydreaming) Oh no!   Can we please talk it over again, there is a difference between fantasies and reality.  Let me just digest this, I'm still under shock!   I need to think it over.

This is where I realised that, although things seem to be going in the right direction for hubby, they may not for me.  I started panicking, wait, wait, wait. This is going too fast!  I need a break away from home and that is exactly what I'm going to have in a few weeks' time. 

Understand me, before Christmas, we were still having arguments, nasty, snappy remarks for each other, and I badly wanted to divorce after we had tried to make things change for ten years. At Christmas, we decided on a truce and, like bonobos, I initiated the "make love not war" behaviour.  Now, things seem to develop in a lighter tone, but I still want to divorce, for many reasons, but basically because it is too late now for me to try and save our marriage.  But hubby seems to think differently.  How can I explain without hurting him more?  Can we not just divorce and be buddies?  We know couples who have divorced and are having affairs with their ex.  Have I done it all wrong? 

May this break help me find the right words, attitude and state of mind to explain calmly what I wish for the two of us in the future.  It need not be painful.

TMI Tuesday

Rather a TMI Wednesday for my first attempt!


1. For self-arousal, if you could reach any part of your body with your mouth, which part would you like to reach and why?  Definitely my pussy, it wants daily attention.


2. If you reached that part of your body, how often and how long would you want to stay there? As often as possible.


3. If the opportunity arose, what would you like to do to someone else that you have never been game to try before? Use a strapon on hubby, although he doesn’t know if he would like it.

4. You have been selected to swap one of your organs with another member of the opposite sex. What would you swap and why? Who would you choose as the organ donor?  I have always wanted to know how it feels like to have a cock. I’d give one day of my life to be a man! Then also have a man’s brain for a day.


5. Overnight you have a beauty sleep and inexplicably awaken at dawn having now turned into the most beautiful person on the planet. What would you do differently for the next 24 hours?  I don’t think beauty would change anything in my behavior. Now if you refer to the “inside” beauty, I would try to make my little contribution to improving someone’s life, something I try to do anyway (does that sound like the reply of a winning Miss at a beauty pageant?) I would take some pictures as a souvenir, lol!


Bonus Question: You are noticed by a talent scout and invited to star in your own x-rated movie for world wide distribution. You are asked to write the plot. Describe your movie plot in one sentence of no more than 20 words.   I am in a pullman (train), dressed as Greta Garbo, and there are three very sexy men with me. Suddenly the lights go off…