Les nuits d'une demoiselle

Pour mes lecteurs francophones - For my French speaking followers

Une délicieuse chanson de Colette Renard de 1963, plutôt osé pour l'époque!

Que c'est bon d'être demoiselle
Car le soir dans mon petit lit
Quand l'étoile Vénus étincelle
Quand doucement tombe la nuit

Je me fais sucer la friandise
Je me fais caresser le gardon
Je me fais empeser la chemise
Je me fais picorer le bonbon

Je me fais frotter la péninsule
Je me fais béliner le joyau
Je me fais remplir le vestibule
Je me fais ramoner l'abricot

Je me fais farcir la mottelette
Je me fais couvrir le rigondin
Je me fais gonfler la mouflette
Je me fais donner le picotin

Je me fais laminer l'écrevisse
Je me fais foyer le cœur fendu
Je me fais tailler la pelisse
Je me fais planter le mont velu

Je me fais briquer le casse-noisettes
Je me fais mamourer le bibelot
Je me fais sabrer la sucette
Je me fais reluire le berlingot

Je me fais gauler la mignardise
Je me fais rafraîchir le tison
Je me fais grossir la cerise
Je me fais nourrir le hérisson

Je me fais chevaucher la chosette
je me fais chatouiller le bijou
Je me fais bricoler la cliquette
Je me fais gâter le matou

Et vous me demanderez peut-être
Ce que je fais le jour durant
Oh! cela tient en peu de lettres
Le jour , je baise, tout simplement



Paroles: Colette Renard. Musique: G.Breton & Raymond Legrand 1963
© Disque Vogue

I want to live my life in colors...

Sleep

"Sinfully Sensuous" now available as eBook

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Go and have a look, enjoy!

Love hate Sex Cake

A new beginning

Well, guys and dolls, I have moved into my own place, a flat in an old house surrounded by a nice garden.  From my bedroom window, I have the view below.  A very calm place not far from the city center, but which is going to be destroyed in about 3 to 4 years.

I'm still not completely settled, developing new skills in working on the flat - lying a laminated wooden floor among other things.  Seeing the children once in a while, and already noticing a difference in attitudes, which is refreshing.

Learning to live on your own after over 20 years of a family life is very challenging because you have more time to think and not always in a rational or positive way.  You tend to find things complicated, or you get obsessed with things you did not even have time to think about when you were busy with your family.  I therefore understand that some elderly people, and not even so elderly, tend to get very complicated when living alone.

Anyway, you may ask, what about my Adventurer?  Well, after a lot of thinking and maybe also some persuasion from his partner, he decided to try and go back to his ex for the sake of his daughter's happiness beyond anything else and see how it works, but offered to stay in touch by email.  What this entails, I'm not really sure.  Of course, I was very disappointed, but then you never know what the future has in store for you.  In the meantime, I need to find self-love, to concentrate on living fully in the moment and in simplicity, which is far from easy at the moment.

I had a very enlighting conversation with hubby who still thinks he owns me in a way.  He told me he knew me so well that it is as if he had "made" me... Maybe that is what happens with old couples, but he also made me realise that "he thought that I needed to be protected" and there a lot of little light bulbs lit up in my mind.  It took me all these years to understand why he behaved in such a "selfish" way, always taking decisions unilaterally, always considering me as "inferior" to the point were I thought he had no consideration for my needs or thoughts, and that he always handled me as if I was "fragile".  I was just speechless and sooooo angry!!!!  Now he wants to find a young girl to protect...I am disgusted!

I will post more pictures of my Irish Summer, with some surprises... Soon.

Irish Summer - 1

The Land of the Wacky Woollies

This is where I spent a couple of weeks on vacation this summer.....

With no surprise, it was windy, cold and raining, had to buy a pair of boots.

Camouflage boots...

... amazing, isn't it? They totally blend in!

More to come, I'm working on a slide show.

And for those of you who noticed and wonder why I have disappeared again...
Well, I'm packing because I will be moving in a few weeks...  Freedom!!!!

Not TMI Tuesday

It is not a TMI Tuesday, but this post is a nice transition to my next post.

In the Summertime

1. What is your favorite summer clothing item or outfit?

A very colourful sleeveless cotton top with a deep cleavage, and short pants, or a bikini.

2. Did you or will you take a summer vacation? If yes, where did you go?
   
I went to Ireland with my best friend.  The first three days were freezing cold, and I had to wear five  layers of clothes and get some rubber boots.  But it soon became warmer and we even had beautiful sunny days.  And lots of Guinness, traditional Irish music, delicious seafood, and more golden red beer, and hysterical laughters :)

3. What is your ideal weekend away (e.g. city, beach or wilderness)?

Can I choose beach and wilderness?  I know I can be a pain!  Playing Robinson Crusoe with my personnal Adventurer?

4. What would you pack for a naughty weekend?

Are you still asking?  LOL  Some sexy transparent nighties, sexy lingerie, sex toys, massage oil, camera... 

5. What item(s) do you never unpack, never take out of the luggage from trip to trip?

Condoms!  Tropical medicines, thankfully, apart from one occasion, I was never sick.

Bonus: Last vacation sex… Tell us what happened

Well, that was last October and I wrote about it here, here, here, here, here and finally there!!!

This questions were submitted by Heelsnstocking.

The Adventurer



Ben Kozel, Adventurer

 After my unsuccessful encounters with men on a dating site, one profile tickled my fancy.  It basically said, among other things: “I’m an adventurer, I like a woman who appreciates my cooking”.  I immediately replied something along the lines: “Is your cooking so terrible that women tend to dislike it?” and our mail exchange lasted for 2 months.  Just as me, he was very careful not to disclose too much about himself.  His answers were somehow short and imprecise, but I liked him.

We chatted a couple of times and discovered that we both had a very high sex drive.  He told me we better get our hands off each other when we meet.  We finally met in the mountains for lunch on a Saturday.  The idea, as I had understood it, was to have lunch at the restaurant, then go for a hike with his dogs and for a professional massage. 

We went for a hike with the dogs, beautiful weather, very pleasant talk, he’s a quiet man, who likes to be in charge, slightly chauvinistic, who has been around a lot. We both enjoyed talking about the places we had been.  I could feel the man is like a bear, rough outside, but rather sensitive inside.  It seemed we clicked, or I felt good in his company.

It turned out that the massage session was not planned with professionals…. My misunderstanding.  We did have it, and a little more.  It was getting hot and steamy, but he stopped before it went too far.  Just could not do it.  Then, we opened a bottle of champagne and listened to music.  We started cooking and had a very nice dinner.  Since I had drunk too much to drive, he invited me to stay over.  We sat on the couch talking until it was his time to go to sleep.  I finally shared his bed, we “crossed a few lines” as he said, but nothing too serious.

Next day, on my way home, many questions crossed my mind.  I felt he was still very raw from his recent separation and not at all ready for a relationship.  Where did a lover fit in?  Nowhere, not now.  He must have put his profile on the dating site for reassurance, met a few ladies online, but from what I gathered, I was the only one he met for real.

We exchanged a few more messages.  I told him that I was happy to have met him, that I was going to close my profile.  He replied he would do the same and stop talking to the other ladies, but that he had been thinking too and basically, we both needed to take care of domestic issues before we could think of meeting again.  His job was taking up all his time, for all I know he is somewhere on another continent at the moment and I do not know when/if he will contact me again, but most probably not before September…..

All this waiting and hoping had me rather frustrated one lonely Sunday, I was asking myself if all this was worth the while, suddenly my phone rang, it was a chain message I had sent around in 2009, "you are an angel!"    I was under shock!  No one had sent this message, the phone rang with this message on.  Holly sh*t!  I was crying! And grateful!  So, I am convinced that this is the man...  and I'm turning into bloody Penelope!

P.S. The picture above is not a picture of my Adventurer.

One year....

Just out of curiousity, I checked my site meter  after posting again, you are still there, it's been almost a year...  I'm still thinking of you and wonder how you are faring.  Are you happy now?  Has your life improved? Have some of your dreams come true?  I hope and wish so, because you deserve it, you sweet man!

Lovely Day

While on vacation, a band sang this song for someone's wedding anniversary, it struck me as a beautiful song and the singer was in his early 20's.  When I came back, I searched youtube to see who wrote it, and it is Bill Withers - Ain't No Sunshine and The Two of Us.  Great songwriter and singer.  Here is the Maroon 5 version

America - Horse with no name

Today, I happened to stumble upon a video of America's famous hit.  

I was about 15 and just loved this song.

HNT - 22 I am proud

Delicately lifting my transparent black gown, I deliberately show you my navel, my black lacy panties and creamy thighs, but what I intend to show you is my round tummy, not a perfectly toned tummy, but the tummy that sheltered three babies, three wonderful children, which looked like an oversized egg at three different occasions.  My tummy is soft and not very firm, but I am proud of it, even if it is not perfect.

Dating?

My inspiration for writing seems to have gone for the moment.  No time to concentrate on it either.  I do have quite a lot on my plate, taking care of judgmental children, seeking an apartment, paying bills, having nightmares about all the things that need to be fixed in my life, etc.

Thankfully, I have a bunch of online friends, old and new, who make my days brighter. Blooging is such a rewarding experience!  

Recently I put my profile on a dating site.  Am I too picky, or are there only boring men seeking a partner? Are dating sites mostly for people having problems meeting someone in real life? Are they for people looking for easy sex?  I feel so naive, and so reluctant to go through all this trouble.... So, I had a first date with a tiny guy - not really my type - two weeks ago, I was surprised that it went rather well.  "I do not look for an affair, my life is too complicated at the moment, I am looking for friends and see what happens... Do you have your own flat?", that's what he told me and I could not agree more, but why should he ask about my flat? I should have reacted immediately. To summarize, we decided to go to an outdoor music festival, but he ditched me the day before because he had had sex with someone else.  And I happened to bump into him, among the huge crowd, and he acted like an asshole....  Thank god, he was not my style and we only met once.... But this makes me realize that maybe I'm not ready for this...  Life is already too difficult at the moment, and maybe I should just take care of myself, be happy and not look for anyone for the time being...  I feel puzzled... Yet, I wish to meet nice people who could become friends and maybe more... Why is it so difficult?

Now, I started to take Cuban salsa lessons, which is something I'm looking forward to every week.  I am planning my holidays, with my best friend, for July and started visiting apartments.  I have been waiting so long for things to happen and yet maybe I need to work more on myself and then things will move my way, but time is flying by and I have the feeling things are not moving.  

All this sounds pretty negative, but I'm not down, I'm just hoping. That is what the psychologist my son visited told me, when I found out about the manipulative behaviour of my husband, it is becoming a mantra:

DO NOT LET ANYONE DIM YOUR INNER SUN!

HNT - 21 Hotlips

Hotlips or labios ardientes, a Central American  flower
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In the Mood…

From TMI Tuesday

Rather late, but I don't really care...

1. What puts you in a creative mood?

Traveling, seeing an exhibition, architecture, seeing a piece of art, watching photography, 

visiting blogs, discussions.

2. What puts you in a silly mood?

My children, sometimes friends, sometimes something I see or hear in the media, being tipsy.

3. What puts you in a contemplative mood?

A book, nature, paintings, a discussion, music.

4. What puts you in a competitive mood?

I'm usually not a competitor, but I like some emulation, it depends if it is worth it, in my opinion of course.

5. If you consider yourself a talkative person, what puts you in a quiet mood? If you consider yourself a quiet person, what puts you in a talkative mood?

I am usually a reserved, quiet person, but I can be very talkative depending on the subject, again, traveling, decoration, art, emotions, projects, feelings, music, but I avoid talking about politics and religion.  I keep my opinions to myself, or I can get very upset. lol!

6. What can a person do that will instantly put you in a sexy mood?

It rather has to do with a person's behavior, if there is sexual tension, if he smiles and has a sparkle in his eyes, if he moves like a cat, smells good, teases me,  if he very subtly courts me, lets me know he's attracted by me, if he touches me and I feel sparkles or even goosebumps.  That is what I would call good chemistry and terribly arousing.

Bonus: What song puts you in a sexy mood? If possible post a link to the song so that we can listen to it.

Some good jazz, saxophone.  I really don't have one in mind right now, but I heard Justin Nozuka recently, and I like him.

CafeGlow - Sophia Santi in Pulp Friction

Sophia Santi in Pulp Friction [trailer] from CafeGlow on Vimeo.

TMI Tuesday - 31 May 2011

Suggested by the lovely Hedone.

Go and visit her to check all  the other sexy players

1.  What time did you go to bed last night and were you alone?

I always go to bed around 1 a.m., sometimes even 2.  I know, bad!  But I got used to it.  And unfortunately, I'm very much alone.

2. If you could be given ANY gift what would it be?

Patience, generosity and energy! Oh, only one?  Patience!

3. What was the last film that really moved/disturbed/thrilled you and why?

Das Leben der Anderen, it is a German movie

, from 2007, 

about a man who was assigned by the East German Ministry of Culture to spy on a couple of artists living in East Berlin and considered as the elite of communist artists, to check if they were not diverted by non-communist ideas.  The spy becomes more and more fascinated by them, and in the end discovers they are only pretending to be real communists, and without them knowing it, saves their lives, well almost... The film received many European awards.  It was a very moving and realistic movie. It gave us an insight of how the system worked at that time.  Beautifully done!

4. What is your favorite way to wake up and what is the first thing you do?

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Sleep in, no alarm ringing, but besides of that, my lover spooning me, gently kissing my neck, nibbling at my ear, whispering loving words, his hand on my waist and on my breasts, me feeling something pocking my behind.  This doesn't really happen these days.  I would say to stretch and yawn, listen to some nice music, looking at the sun rays falling on my bed, hearing the birds sing, and smelling the smell of the garden or of breakfast cooking... doesn't happen either, just stretch and yawn and watch the sunlight coming in through the shutters.  Then I go to the bathroom.

5. You’ve been granted an extra hour in the day, what are you going to do?
a. Sleep more
b. Extend a sexual interlude
c. Shop
d. Finally fit in that workout that you usually can’t make time for

a, b, and meditate.  A would be much needed :)

BONUS:  Are you in love or lust?

I wish I was in love!