The Dublin adventure

"Hello! How are you?" this is how you get greeted in Ireland. The weather was gloomy and wet, but this is Ireland. First impression, It’s alive! I crossed many young people in the streets, very refreshing compared to the city where I live, where the average population is becoming a lot older and the standards of living quite high. This makes it a conservative, somehow snobbish, city where people seem rather cold and mentalities are still inherently following the principles of austerity preached by Calvin, some 400 years ago. People will not engage in conversation easily and will not make eye contact when crossing you in the street. So, it was all quite enjoyable and easy-going. And my mind was set in a positive way.

I met some interesting people just sitting at a terrace on a less gloomy Monday afternoon. Someone indicated a real Irish pub for locals, where people come with their instrument and play for their pleasure. The Cobblestone. This is where I spend my next evening, drinking Guinness and enjoying the atmosphere. I had my camera with me, took some pictures. A man sitting behind me advised me not to walk at night in this neighbourhood with my camera, but rather take a taxi home. We engaged in a most intense conversation for over 3 hours. He was a journalist specialized in business matters, who regularly came to Dublin a few days a week for business. His name was Douglas. He told me he spent some years in America and Australia, but in the end, he was homesick and decided to come back to Ireland, where he married and had children. We compared mentalities, spoke about our lives. Excellent connection, we were on the same wavelength. We spoke about relationships and sex. As I said, very intense. In three hours, this man got me back on tracks in the kindest and most understanding manner. The pub was about to close, so he got me a taxi, this happened in less than 5 minutes, and he was gone. I don’t know his name. I will never see him again, but he left a memorable feeling in my heart. I don’t believe in coincidences, I think I was meant to meet this person somehow. Something like an angel :)

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Some days you wish this would just end.  My son is still sick, this time with mononucleosis and hepatitis.  Now at least, we know what he has, but I think he is also depressed.  I feel like my strenths have left me.  I am a strong woman.  I tend to not like to whine.  I have tried to be a caring ex-wife and mother, but now I feel I cannot give anymore, I am so tired, I'm sinking.  I need some TLC myself.  I need a hug and someone to hold me tight!  Sorry for whining, but I'm having one of these moments here.  I need someone to take care of me...

I more than ever need this break, I'm glad to be able to get away for a few days.

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Dublin... alone

So folks, change of plans, I am going to be in Dublin on my own this week-end, too bad :(  I was hoping a friendly company but plans have changed, so..... the big girl I am is still hoping to have fun; visit Dublin without my personal guide - haven't had time yet to read anything about the city - maybe a museum, maybe enjoy some night life, just walk around, go to some pubs, maybe listen to some bands....  If you are a Dubliner and happen to read this, suggestions are welcome...  I have my new camera with me.  In any case, I'm looking forward to this trip.

Life is too short

I should probably read this every day!

Ok!  This end/beginning of year period has been difficult - AGAIN!! - three persons down with pneumonia, hubby ending at hospital in need of immediate surgery.... and going back for more in a few months....  My 16 year old son thinks he can quit school and stay at home for ever...(not even in his wildest dreams! Snort!)  I'm not going to whine, I've done enough!    I'm OK, trying to take everything with a distance, but it's not easy.

Two good news:  I have a new camera, which I should test this week-end....  and I will be away next week-end, visiting a friend abroad.  A well deserved break,  some fresh air and probably rain, but who cares? Some nice chats, photo sessions, dancing, and a lot of improvisation... Happy sigh!   Can't wait!

And, I've reached 90 followers!  YAY!

21 Questions

Although, I have been invited every week to join in a TMI Tuesday, I haven't done any recently for lack of time, but I saw this one over at Blue-Eyed Vixen and since I had some spare time tonight, I stole it from her. 

1. Do you like your feet to be touched when having sex?

I recently discovered toe licking and it is something that can get me over the edge when done at the proper moment.  You should give it a try!

2. If your love life was a movie what would the title be?
Oh God, I have a bad memory for titles, but right now it could be The Graduate, call me Mrs. Robinson Hehe!

3. Orgasm eyes open or closed?
Used to be closed, but it's amazing to keep eyes locked, very intense!

4. Have you ever been to a sex club, swinger club or sex party?
Nope.  Would like to try however.

5. How many years difference is appropriate for having sex with someone…example is it appropriate for a 36 year old to be with a 20 year old?
Still one year ago I would have been hesitant, but I've read so much since and have learned that when two people click, have a good chemistry, age doesn't really matter, it is more two souls who get together and share intense moments.  The hell with conventions!   We only live once and life is so short, right? Of course, he should be what we call an adult.  Little cougar mama grinning here, only 16 years difference?  Pfff!  That is nothing...  *ahem*

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6. Does your partner know all your favorite positions? 
Hubby did.  My recent lover introduced me to new ones, I love discoveries!

7. What would your porn star name be?
Me a porn star?  Hahaha!  I'm a horny Pixie, but I welcome suggestions.

8. Have you ever done a body shot?
When I was in my early 20s, but never since.  I would be drunk after only two tequila shots, but I'd love to try again anyway.  Sounds like fun!

9. Kissed someone of the same sex?
Oh yes!  HHhhmmm!  Wrote about it  here.

10. Have you ever screamed out the wrong name during the heat of the moment?
No, I never scream names.... um, yes I did in fact!  Only fools don't change :)

11. Are socks on during sex a turn on or off?

What's the point of wearing socks during sex?  Yuk!

12. How big is too big for penis size?

Well, um... will tell you when I find one.  I'd say length is less interesting than girth, but that's me.

13. This one is from the Hubman Do you think your grand-parents still have sex? 

Probably in spirit, or in another dimension, but then I don't know if sex is important in that other dimension.

14. Who usually initiates the foreplay in your relationship?

It depends of who I am with.

15. Do you like to be teased?
It's a great turn on, but there has to be a reward.

16. Do you like your hair pulled?

Big revelation!  I've never had my hair pulled, even when it was long.  I only read about it since I started reading erotica.  Duh!

17. How do you feel about long distance relationships and can they work?
Based on experience, they can only last a certain time, or in the perspective of being together in the end, but otherwise, no.  You could say, that is my life story... apart from my story with hubby.

18.How much money would it take to have sex with someone you were not attracted to?
I would never do it for all the money in the world.  Or I would loose all dignity.  


19. What would your SEX license plate say?
Don't know, we don't have them over here, but when I visited the US, I saw a now very classical one, but the naive young girl I was thought it was awesome - good girls to to heaven, bad girls go everywhere (that's me, I thought).

20. Does biting turn you on?
I tend to be the biter, I've never been bitten. But hey, why not?

21. Sex in a barn full of cows and horses or a outhouse at the county fair?
YES, in the hay, on the upper part where the hay was stacked, don't care about cows and horses, for that matter.  The smell of hay combined to the smell of sex!  Besides I was watching the rabbits frolicking in the prairie from the barn's upper window. A wonderful memory!  An outhouse at a fair? Definitely!

I wanna do....

“There is an inner beauty about a woman who believes in herself, who knows she is capable of anything that she puts her mind to. There is a beauty in the strength and determination of a woman who follows her own path, who isn’t thrown off by obstacles along the way. There is a beauty about a woman whose confidence comes from experiences; who knows she can fall, pick herself up, and move on.”

Sex Blog of the Week

I have been a total slacker, and I would like to apologize.  Some time ago, I had the surprise to discover that Ebony Panther had nominated my blog Sex Blog of the Week.  Since it is better late than never, I wanted let him know how grateful I am and return the favor.

Please check his site, he entertained us about all the true stories of his sexual accounters last year, and this year is putting up Gift of the Week, Porn Star of the Week, Sexy Song Friday, Porn Hub Video of the Week, etc.  It has a very sexy look with a lot of gorgeous pictures.

http://amorousebonychronicles.blogspot.com/