The secret of lovemaking the African way

In Burundi, Rwanda, the eastern part of the Republic of Congo, and in the western part of Uganda and Tanzania, an efficient sexual practice has been developed over the centuries. This ancestral practice has proven to be very efficient in inducing orgasms, even multiple orgasms in women. It is called KUNYAZA in Burundi and Rwanda, and KACHABALI in Uganda.

Contrary to the KAMASUTRA and TANTRA that have largely been documented since a thousand years, there is practically no written proof of the KUNYAZA as, traditionally, everything is transmitted orally in Africa. It is a method which, if well practiced, will induce female ejaculation.

A variety of studies have shown that 70% of women, when penetrated vaginally, will not orgasm without stimulation of the clitoris. However, this type of stimulation or cunnilingus are not a universally accepted solutions. Some won’t like it because of hygienic or cultural considerations, or simply because they dislike the taste of it.

According to some old dictionary, KUNYAZA is the traditional way of making love to a woman by rubbing the penis to the clitoris resulting in peeing by the woman. However, it has now been proved that this has nothing to do with the woman urinating, but with female ejaculation. Making love applying this method can become quite noisy, in Rwanda, adults refer to it as “a dog lapping water”. African women are expected to ejaculate while having sex, they could be repudiated if they did not. It shows that female ejaculation is a widely spread phenomenon in these countries. Women should be able to ejaculate about one litre or more.

Preliminaries are not practiced in the way we do, in Rwanda for example, verbal eroticism is used instead. Its effects should not be minimized; there are even experts in this art called GUTONGOSA, who can sexually stimulate a woman without touching her to the point where she becomes crazy with desire.

The KUNYAZA consists of stimulating the vulva with the penis, with or without penetration.

The simple method

The man taps the clitoris with the tip of his penis. Concentrating on the clitoris, the man taps without interruption the glans moving vertically upwards and downwards or downwards and upwards, or from left to right or right to left, or even better, combining horizontal and vertical, or circular movements.

The second possibility consists in tapping the glans as well as the body of the clitoris, moving vertically from the body of the clitoris to the tip, or zigzagging. The woman may feel uncomfortable; in this case some lubrication is necessary.

At first sight, nothing special about this way of lovemaking, consisting only in stimulating the clitoris with the penis. You should however not underestimate this method because of its simplicity. It can produce miracles.

Stimulation of the clitoris is the simplest form of the KUNYAZA. The more complex method can be used on all of the woman’s external genital organs, including the vagina:

• First, lubricate the penis by penetration, assuming that the vagina is already wet from preliminaries. You only need to rub against the vagina as done during penetration until the penis is completely coated with juices.
• Then stimulate the small labia and the vestibule of the vagina by tapping the penis either horizontally, vertically or in a zigzag motion from the upper to the lower part and up again. This will lubricate the labia, which will become engorged with blood. Do the same for the urethra. Then start all over again, from the penetration to the stimulation of the vestibule, tapping harder if necessary, in order to stimulate the hidden part of the clitoris. The partners may orgasm and ejaculate at this point, if not they may continue the process.
• The next step consists in stimulating in the same movement the small labia, the vestibule and the clitoris. The man can also put the tip of his penis inside the vagina and repeat the tapping of the labia, vestibule and clitoris and alternate penetration and tapping.
• In the end, the man can stimulate all the afore mentioned spots, including the perineum, and with penetration

Stimulation of the vagina is not necessarily limited to sliding in and out, the man can hold his penis in his hand and insert only half of it and move it up and down or even in circles.

Now you know all the basics, you can vary the intensity and the speed, until you reach the most intense pleasure! It is expected that you share impressions and a lot of tenderness with your partner afterward.

(This is an unofficial translation of some excerpts of the book Le secret de l’amour à l’africaine by Nsekuye Bizimana. I don’t think it has ever been translated into English)